After all, you’ve had to overcome a lot in your life.
But you don’t want to just survive. You want to feel fulfilled and at peace.
On paper, things may look "fine". Inside, you feel disconnected from yourself—unsure what you want, what you need, or who you are becoming.
You understand how to logically solve your problems. But when it comes to your emotions, everything feels murky.
Your logical side and your emotional side seem to be disconnected.
You find yourself paralyzed at times because you can’t tell what’s fear and what’s your intuition.
You need someone alongside you to help unpack the boxes you’ve carefully put away in your mind.
You don't need to do this alone.
Calm Pathway offers a space to gently unpack the experiences you’ve had, make sense of how they shaped you, and begin reconnecting with the parts of yourself that may have gone quiet in the name of survival.
If you’re searching for a compassionate trauma therapist or want to receive the best care from someone who understands the complexity of trauma, you’re in the right place.

You've been through a lot, to say the least. Images and memories seem to come up out of nowhere. It shows up in your dreams. You avoid people, places, and things that remind you of what happened. You feel like you can't talk about it with anyone because you're afraid they wouldn't understand.
You have struggled to find your sense of direction in life and you are just going through the motions hoping that one day you will achieve your true purpose. You feel lost, overwhelmed, and hopelessly stuck.
Trauma is not defined solely by what happened—it’s defined by how your nervous system experienced what happened.
In a general sense, trauma occurs when an event or series of events overwhelms your ability to cope and leads to lasting changes in how you view yourself, others, or the world. Trauma is subjective. Two people can live through the same experience and be impacted in very different ways.
Trauma can develop from:
Some people meet criteria for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), while others experience trauma-related symptoms without having a PTSD diagnosis. Both are valid.
Clinical criteria for PTSD are outlined in the DSM-5, but many people experience trauma responses that fall outside of this diagnosis and still deserve care and support.

No. Trauma can show up in many ways, including:
Many people seeking therapy for anxiety in Bala Cynwyd later discover that unresolved trauma is playing a role beneath the surface.

Trauma-informed therapy recognizes that you may have a history of trauma—whether or not you ever talk about specific events.
Rather than assuming what you’ve been through, trauma-informed therapy prioritizes:
A trauma-informed trauma therapist understands that current struggles often make sense in the context of past experiences.
You are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to survive.

It can feel overwhelming to begin trauma therapy. It's important to take your time, go slowly, and follow your intuition throughout the process. Together we will slowly begin to unpack and make sense of the metaphorical boxes you have tucked away in your mind. From there, we will develop a plan to help you live the life you have always dreamed of but that felt so far away.

While there is no "cure" for trauma, effective trauma therapy can be life-changing. Some of the benefits of compassionate, effective trauma therapy include relief from intense memories and images, improved relationships, and clarity about one's values and purpose in life.
Additional benefits of trauma therapy include:

We help people navigate and heal from their trauma through evidence-based treatments such as:
Please reach me at stella@calmpathway.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.
While treatment will look different for everyone, below is a general outline of what to expect:
We will begin by getting to know each other better. I will ask you questions about what brings you to therapy and what your goals are. From there, we will come up with a plan for how to reach your goals.
Next, we will explore together the issues that are coming up in your life that are negatively affecting you. We will connect the dots in your life to determine how you have been impacted by your trauma.
We will then carefully and thoughtfully process any traumatic memories that continue to impact you. We will do this at your pace, and only when you feel ready. It could take a while to get to this stage, and that's okay! We can use different techniques to help, including EMDR.
Afterwards, we will work towards building the life you want to live. We will troubleshoot any lingering issues and will problem solve. We will explore what it means to live life fully and freely. We will work on self-discovery and self-exploration, getting to know oneself better.
No. In fact, I really like to be intentional about discussing traumatic memories. Some people feel okay to dive in right away, and some people need a lot of time to get ready. I like to encourage my clients to err on the side of going slowly. I want therapy to be a safe space, meaning you have the tools you need to help you work through your memories in a way that doesn't cause more harm.
The short answer: only you know if something you went through was traumatic or not. Two people can go through the same exact experience and have two very different internal takeaways. Generally speaking, trauma occurs when someone has an experience that exceeds their ability to cope (something that is too much, too soon) and that negatively changes the way they view themselves.
If you're not sure if you've experienced something traumatic or not, I think this could be a great area to explore in therapy.
Many clients ask, what is the window of tolerance in trauma therapy?
The window of tolerance refers to the zone in which your nervous system is regulated enough to think, feel, and process emotions without becoming overwhelmed or shut down.
When you’re inside your window of tolerance, you may feel present, grounded, and able to reflect.
When you’re outside of it, you may experience:
A key goal of trauma therapy is to gradually widen your window of tolerance so you can tolerate a broader range of emotions and experiences with less distress.
Trauma therapy is not linear. Healing unfolds in layers and at your own pace. Below is a general outline of the 3 phases of trauma therapy.
1. Safety and stabilization
We focus on building trust, strengthening coping skills, and helping your nervous system find a greater sense of regulation.
2. Processing and grieving
When you’re ready, we mindfully process traumatic material using approaches that feel tolerable and supportive. This does not require graphic retelling.
3. Integration and reconnection
We strengthen adaptive beliefs about yourself, explore identity, and orient toward meaningful life goals.
Yes, we offer EMDR in Bala Cynwyd, an evidence-based trauma treatment that helps the brain reprocess distressing memories so they feel less intense and intrusive. We also offer virtual EMDR sessions, if needed.
EMDR can be especially helpful for:
EMDR allows healing to occur without needing to go into extensive detail about what happened.
If you’re looking for trauma therapy in Bala Cynwyd, EMDR Bala Cynwyd, or a compassionate trauma therapist who will meet you with care, I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
Contact me today to schedule a free consultation and take the first step toward healing.
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